How to Choose Your First Wedding Dance Song

Your first dance is one of the most special moments of your wedding day. The right song can capture your story as a couple and set the tone for the celebration. Wondering how to choose the perfect track? Here's how to find a song that feels authentic and timeless.

What Is a First Dance?

The first dance, also called the Bridal Waltz, typically takes place after dinner and speeches. It signals the end of formalities and the start of the party.

Cultural variations include:

• Lebanese weddings: First dance often kicks off before dinner.
• Jewish weddings: The Hora begins the night, with the first dance following closely.

It’s not mandatory, but it’s a popular tradition because it symbolizes the couple’s first steps together as newlyweds and leads into an energetic dance floor.

Traditional vs. Modern Songs. Which Should You Choose?

There’s no right or wrong—both options work well. Consider:

Timeless Classics:

• "At Last" – Etta James (1960)
• "Unchained Melody" – The Righteous Brothers
• "Can't Help Falling in Love" – Elvis Presley

Modern Hits:

• "Thinking Out Loud" – Ed Sheeran
• "All of Me" – John Legend
• "Halo" – Beyoncé

Tip: Ask yourself: “Will we still love dancing to this song at our 50th anniversary?”

Nervous About Dancing in Front of Guests?

If dancing in front of an audience feels daunting, opt for:

• Stripped-back acoustic versions. Easy tempo and less pressure for complex moves.
• Shorter songs (under 3 minutes). Keeps the moment sweet and stress-free.

Popular easy dance options:

• "Perfect" – Ed Sheeran
• "A Thousand Years" – Christina Perri

We can also help by shortening your chosen track to fit your comfort level.

How to Choose a Song That Reflects Your Relationship

Your first dance song should be meaningful. Consider:

• Songs tied to important memories: concerts, road trips, anniversaries.
• Lyrics that resonate with your story.
• A shared favorite artist or genre.

If your tastes differ, choose a fresh song that represents your new journey together. Need inspiration? Browse curated “Best Wedding Dance Songs” lists or consult with your band for personalized suggestions.

The perfect first dance song balances personal significance, timeless appeal, and comfort on the dance floor. Whether it’s a modern love song or a classic ballad, the key is making sure it feels authentically you.

Need help planning your live wedding music? Contact Red Soda Band to discuss custom song options for your special day.