How To Choose Your First Wedding Song

What Is a First Dance?

Also known as the Bridal Waltz, the first dance traditionally takes place after dinner and speeches, signaling the start of the party.

However, wedding traditions vary:

• Lebanese weddings start with a pre-dinner bridal waltz to get guests dancing early.
• Jewish weddings often begin with the Hora, with the first dance happening before or after.

A first dance is optional, but it’s a cherished moment for many couples. It’s also a great way to set the tone for a packed dance floor.

What If You’re Nervous About Dancing in Front of Guests?

Not everyone is comfortable performing for an audience. If you’re feeling nervous:

• Choose a slow, acoustic song that doesn’t require fancy footwork.
• Keep it short—pick a song under three minutes or ask your band to shorten it.
• Practice together at home to build confidence.

Easy-to-Dance-To First Dance Songs

• "Perfect" – Ed Sheeran
• "A Thousand Years" – Christina Perri
• "Make You Feel My Love" – Adele

Start Your Marriage on the Right Note

Your first dance should feel authentic, special, and uniquely yours. Whether you choose a classic love song, a modern hit, or something unconventional, it should represent your love story.

Need help choosing or performing your first dance song? Contact Red Soda Band to create a live music experience tailored to your big day.